The Matilda Blog
Supporting you in understanding endometriosis, navigating surgical care and speaking up for what your body needs.
Love Your Labia: A Pelvic Physio’s Take on What’s Normal (and Why That Question Matters)
When you live with endometriosis or persistent pelvic pain, it’s easy to feel like your body is working against you- especially when people don’t often discuss the pelvic area. And then you get referred to Pelvic Physiotherapy, and have no idea what to expect!
Many clients arrive at their first Pelvic Physiotherapy session feeling anxious. Some are scared it’s going to hurt and others are worried that something about their vulva, labia, or vagina isn’t “normal.” I’ve lost count of how many people have nervously asked: “Is it okay down there?” or whispered, “Sorry, I haven’t waxed…”
So let’s discuss this and clear things up- with kindness, facts, and zero shame.
How Can I Manage My Pain Day to Day?
If you live with endometriosis or persistent pelvic pain, you probably already know that pain doesn’t follow a neat, predictable schedule. Some days are manageable. Others are overwhelming. And many days fall somewhere in between.
Endometriosis Surgery Recovery Timeline: Week-by-Week Insights
Recovery from endometriosis surgery is about more than wound healing. It’s a delicate process of physical, emotional, and hormonal adjustment- especially in the first few weeks.
The Power of Community: Why We Created the Matilda Circle
Living with endometriosis can feel isolating. That’s why we created the Matilda Circle- a supportive, validating community where you’re seen, heard, and never alone.
How I Unlearned Hiding My Pain to Seem ‘Low Maintenance’
I wanted to be the friend who said yes to every invite. The one who was always up for a spontaneous catch up or a last-minute trip. The one who could bounce back quickly, no matter what her body was going through.
Instead, I was constantly navigating a body I didn’t fully understand, symptoms I didn’t yet have language for, and a health system that often made me feel invisible. So, I learnt to perform—to act ‘normal’.
Bowel Symptoms in Endometriosis: What’s Normal, What’s Not.
It’s one of the most common- yet least talked about- challenges of living with endometriosis: bowel symptoms.
Many people with endometriosis experience bloating, constipation, diarrhoea, pain with bowel movements, or a sensation of incomplete emptying. These symptoms can occur even without endometriosis directly affecting the bowel, because of the condition’s links with inflammation, nerve sensitisation, and pelvic floor dysfunction.
Travelling with Endometriosis: 12 Tips to Stay Comfortable on Your Next Holiday
Travelling with endo? It’s absolutely possible. Yes, you can still live your best life- whether it’s cocktails by the beach or hot chocolates in the mountains. The key? A bit of prep, some handy tricks, and listening to your body every step of the way.
Dating with Endometriosis: What I Told My Partner from the Start
Dating with endometriosis is a layered experience. It’s not just the nerves or the usual butterflies- it’s also the quiet calculations going on in the background. Will I be okay going out tonight? Should I mention the pain? What if I need to cancel at the last minute?
Why Language Matters in Endometriosis and Pelvic Pain care.
The words we use in endometriosis care can either build trust or cause harm. In this blog, clinician Jo shares how subtle shifts in language can help avoid medical gaslighting, validate lived experience, and foster safer, more compassionate care for people with endometriosis.
3 myths and 3 facts about endometriosis
Endometriosis is a condition with many myths and misunderstandings, which can lead to confusion and misdiagnosis. In this blog, we'll debunk five common myths and highlight five key facts about endometriosis, helping you gain a clearer understanding of this condition.
Endo-cation
Designed to be an informative, gentle and evidence-based resource. This blog is useful if you are new to the topic of endometriosis, have a diagnosis but want to know more, or have a diagnosis and want to share information with others.